you are 100 percent right my brother,just love of JESUS CHRIST is everything, no anything or someone else can change it.I really know your filling with her but u can’t sacrifice “our love Father” with it.
i think this time for u to make decision,the right decision.and i know that u will make the right decision,i belive that.U’r still quit young for something unusual,so please don’t spent your time for it.i beliave that u will find the right öne in GOD time.i’ll pray it for u.
so forget the past ‘n this time for face a beutifull future.
i’ll always here to support u
keep cheer up bro….
GOD blessing u

yo bro, niet dat ik zo ervaren ben in de liefde.. natuurlijk kan je van iemand houden, super veel, meer dan van jezelf, familie of zelfs van God.. zoveel dat je de realiteit uit je ogen verliest en dan kan liefde iemand echt blind maken.. zet God als prioriteit nummer 1 in je leven (ok, makkelijker gezegt dan gedaan) leef een heilig leven, weet nog toen ik in Lombok was, was er op de muur geschreven van een kerk, no holiness no fire.. God zal je leegte vullen man, alles geven wat je nodig hebt.. zoek eerst ‘t koninkrijk van God en zijn gerechtigheid toch.. maak je geen zorgen over je toekomst, vriendin.. ben zelf ook nog jomblo, verlang ook naar liefde maar niet op onze tijd, maar op Zijn tijd toch amen Aan de andere kant kan misschien ook blij wezen, God heeft nog een beter, liever meisje voor je in petto..
GBu.. greets JP

Heeey aapieflap..!!! ben ik weer.
Nou..hier = dan m’n comment.

Finally .. u’ve found the light brother!! heheheh..(joking-joking).

Well…I’m certainly that He’ll give u the way.
N for me….I can c ur happy face often now..!!(instead of -> =( ) horeee..!!

Don’t worry…be happy. Everything’s gonna be fine ;-)!!

Now you’ve closed ur (strugle-)book n goodluck w/ ur new chapter book ;-).

Bubye beloved bro.

GBU

=== HUG ===

.Luvly bb sist.
^^

First of all, THANK YOU so much for your support!! I’m so sure that God has sent all of you to brightened my life. Hallelujah!!

@mb Anis: I really hope that I’v made the right decision. Coz I’v sacrificed so much for her. But one thing is sure: God = Love.

@JP: you are so right bro! I’v indeed put her above God once. A stupid mistake. And I do support your opinion; put God on top, and you’ll see that His glory will shine on us.

@de Ndah: I know your side of the story, and I hope that this disaster won’t influence your relation with her. Up to a new and improve book: Pijlercursus 2

Heey..me again..!! heheh.
You’re probably laying on bed already.

I was still thinkin’ about ‘the light’.
1st Of all…I actually mean it.
2nd: coba baca Psalm 119:130
“Uw woorden zijn deuren naar licht, inzicht krijgt wie nog in het duister tast” (bron: Groot nieuws Bijbel..NBV gebruikt moeilijke woorden..btje jmmr). Jd apapun yg lw mau tanya ama Dia…Dia akan menjawab. Jd memang bener…lw dpt KETERANGAN (I’m sure that u’ve asked Him many things)…yeeee..!! SELAMAT YA..!! (We’ve to celebrate this..hehehehh). Kapan nih..???? =)

MayB it sounds hard of what I said..but life goes on.
N yeah..I still care/love her. It’s just a pitty that it has to be like this..’coz I saw how happy u guys were.. =).

Don’t worry bro…er zwemmen nog genoeg vissen in het water..(bijv., fitness-girl.. hahaa) ;-).

Yws…dah dulu y…mau bo2 nich. Dah jam 2.36 lebih..heheh,b’gadang muluk. Ik voel me nu al “k.o.”

Bubyee

C u around..n anders wel weer in me kamer chillen.

I know that with ‘light’, you mean me breaking up with her. And it does sounds pretty harsh, but its eventualy your opinion. And the amazing thing is this; every time I’m in deep trouble, and I start to read the bible again, it always speeks. It’s like God is speaking through written words! And He does!!

Anyway, we WERE indeed happy, but perhaps there were too many things that made me distrust her. I don’t know…

Selalu utamakan Tuhan Yesus di segala tindakanmu yah, Dit!!

mas Didit jangan putus asa dengan cinta, kita sih aslinya bisa hidup tanpa cinta dari cewek/cowok..pokoknya kalo kita percaya Tuhan, kita pasti yakin kalo kita dicintai Tuhan.
cewek begitu sih ngga usah di perhatiin, pokonya cinta dari ortu, fam, friends dan paling belangrijk Tuhan itu sih sudah cukup.
ik denk dat je toch naar andere meisjes moet zoeken. het is fijn als 1 meisje je al heel goed kent, maar haar leven toch niet met je delen: dat gaat gwwn niet.

je moet gwwn doorgaan met je leven en het houden van God!

hou vol en zoek gwwn verder naar andere leuke meisjes ^^

liefs yuta
P.s: maaf kalo comment ini mungkin aga rude, tapi mas tau aku ngga maksud seperti itu =)

@Din2, of course I do!
@Yuta, first of all, your comment is not rude at all! I appreciate ones opinion. It’s far better than lies!! I really thought she was the One, but in the end it became clear that I couldn’t take her flaws anymore. Look for another gf? I think that I’ll stick to my old habit; let God give me one, and not explicitely searching for one. Just like my bro JP

amien…amien….amien…..
hehehehehehehe

wow wow wow…

not much, just want to give few comments, am i allowed?? hihihi

i think i can understand what you feel de, because i am facing almost the same condition. Have a lover in different country, different culture and different belief. And I still can’t find out what way I should choose, don’t wanna give up but the condition is getting harder.

The most important thing is respect. Nobody’s perfect. Everybody have their own reasons to believe in something. Don’t judge which one is right and which one is wrong. Once you loose your respect, you’ll loose everything.

So… glad to know that you already made a decision. Hope that’s the best for you. I’m on the way to decide also but I need more time to think. Hehehe payah yaa aku…

oops few comments become long now. sorry!!

cheers de, wish you all the best! JIA YOU!! GBU

Mb Enno, first of all, thanks for sharing your thoughts! The longer the better! =)

Indeed, respect is important. And in addition; trust.
I don’t judge her beliefs, on the contrary. I respect her choosing for one.
The metaphor was meant to picture the final goal - happiness - and sacrificing it for sadness - us breaking up. The intention was to give strength to my argument, and NOT to insult muslims.

I remember someones’ comment on a blog about LDR. This person said that being together is hard enough, so don’t add distance to it.
I think the person is right. Distance can kill.

I hope you’ll choose the right decision. I know it’s hard, but in the end it’s your own happiness at stake. Good luck!!

GBU.

de didit,

pls don’t get me wrong. I didn’t feel being insulted and I didn’t accused u to insult anything. I know u only gave reaction, not made the cause. Just tried to share. Thank you.

so..peace bro! hihi
have a nice day..

Understood. And your explaination in your message was clear too.

But, one thing though; I’v noticed that SOME muslims are too sensitive regarding insults towards their beliefs. Thats why the apologies. As for me, freedom of speech is what counts!

May JC bring peace to you and me. Amen!!

Hey Didit,

I like your words, love is worth defending. I respect you that you did…

Your metaphor is not something that I would have used, but I think I get the point, in short, why sacrifice happiness?
(but what if she wasn’t happy, or didn’t believe?)

And can an ex be just a friend? I say yes and no! I’ve seen and experience both…

But I’m happy to read that you also found something positive from this experience, and that is you know feel the Holy Spirit in you. I hope it gives you enough strenght…

“Never regret. If it’s good, it’s wonderful. If it’s bad, it’s experience.”

grjb1

You know, I still doubt whether people understand that metaphor… Anyways, whether she was unhappy or didn’t believe in us anymore is a whole other story. And the question you ask about exes? Well, I completely AGREE! It’s a yes and a no, it depends both on the agents – you, your partner, and ex - and situation.

Btw, I like your motto man! It’s the awful truth! :’(

Ps. Your analytic and critical abilities are superb! Why didn’t you go to the university?

As you have accepted the ways of Jesus and is now a part of the Lord’s Kingdom, please respect the choice of others in accepting “a man arguing that Jesus was just merely a prophet”

Also, what may seem “STUPID” to you is another person’s belief and please instill a little bit R.E.S.P.E.C.T.

I read your comments and yet I still find the word “stupid” a little bit careless and insensitive. I get your point in a sense that you are simply asking “why is she sacrificing our love for the sake of her belief?”

Then I ask you this “would you sacrifice the Lord’s love for a mortal’s love?”